Welcome back for sure!!!
Yes I hear you on the hardware side. The new FS was one of the main reasons i had upgraded my video card a while back. Currently I run the following for my main specs:
Intel I7-7700K
NVidia RTX 2060 Super (6 GB Card I think)
32 GB ram
Samsung 970SSD for FS storage
It runs pretty good with most of the settings on high or ultra so I'm happy. When the new FS first came out it was not so great but they've done a lot of work on the frame rates over time so things have gotten much better. Others on here can likely comment as well on their typical setup and how they find things.
Cheers!